chapter 2

I had to read this chapter two times....cuz i think it's something that i didnt understand well...not until now.

Chapter Title: he's just not that into you if he's not calling you

Main points:

* men know how to use the phone

*men like taking breaks from their generally mundane day (busy or not) just to talk with someone they like; it makes them (men) happy.

*man are cowards and they would rather wait until the end of time than give you bad news. a man who likes you wants to spend time with you. he'll only settle for talking to you on the phone fives times a day when he physically cant get to you.

*actions speak loud

*author quote: "if i like you, i dont forget to call you, ever! dont you want a guy who'll forget about all the other things in his life before he forgets about you?

*you should be dating a man who's at least as good as his word.

*the word busy is a load of crap and is most often used by a--holes. The word busy is the relationship weapon of mass destruction. remember...men are never to busy to get what they want.

*when you notice that a guys behavior starts making you feel bad about yourself - when you start to feel like he's making you suffer than it's time to start facing the facts- he's just not that into you.

what I learned:

*if he's not calling you, it's because you are not on his mind...and you should be!

*dont be with someone who doesn't do what they say they're going to do

*you deserve a f---ing phone call (sorry for the language...just re-stating the author)

*busy is another word for a--hole (again sorry...) and a--hole is another word for the dude you are dating!

application:

so many times i wonder why a dude that i might like, or have crush on, or made a connection with doesn't call (or in my case respond to my e-harmony questions)...well, i guess i need to face the facts. if he isn't calling (or responding), than he's not into me. and thats fine. why waste my time? i want a guy that cant stand NOT talking to me...so game on. no more waiting by the phone. no more wondering why. the truth hurts...but better to know it than continue to wonder about it! :)